As a little girl, I dreamed of being Sleeping Beauty, waking up one day to find my beloved who would rescue me from the life of struggle I had always known.   After 20 years of searching, I came up with some more life experience, but was nowhere close to finding my beloved.  I was still getting painful results trying to make relationships work with men who were not interested in a relationship, despite saying they liked me and were attracted to me.  Essentially no matter what I tried I still was attracted to unavailable men, who used my emotional vulnerabilities against me.  I tried reading dating books,  learning from dating blogs I had researched on the internet, but countless dates later, I grew frustrated and almost felt like giving up on any semblance of a healthy relationship for myself.  It just felt like something that happened in someone else's life, not mine.  What was it that I was missing?  Surely, there had to be something that could explain my results...I got some clues from self-improvement books, then more from psychology of relationship books (on both unhealthy and healthy relationships ) and literature on growing up in dysfunctional families.  Ultimately, the work I studied on Carl Jung Psychology led me to more answers through his work on the human mind and teachings from eastern wisdom to learn who I was at a much deeper level.  This work led to many answers in my past that I had completely overlooked or was blindly unaware of until with the help of a coach I was able to see what I had been doing to give myself the results I did not consciously want.  At the age of 42, after countless deadbeat dates, and many dating mishaps I met someone who helped me begin to see that I was not the person the stories in my head had always told me I was. Being able to appreciate this someone was the result of me stepping outside of my old mental patterns and create new ones. To this day, I still pinch him and ask "Are you real?" Here I am living a life I never believed was possible for so many, many years.  

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What did I learn about my life?  I realized that to create the life I want I need to look within for the answers instead of waiting for someone out there to save me from my current life situation.  We live the life that we create, not the life others make for us.  Are you curious to learn how to consciously create your love life rather than to let life dictate it to you unconsciously?  If you are ready learn, you are in the right place. Where will your journey take you?  If you are willing to find out, sign up for a free consult!